Love & Family - A Connect

Some says beauty is in the eyes of beholder. Some says face is what matters, some says it’s the color of skin what they look for & there are some for whom its only the richness of boy/girl or pay if they are working matters. Some look for car, bike & some for house of there partner. But do all of these provide them the real happiness. Does all of these give them the real love. Is all of these not what makes love superficial.

I don’t deny everybody wants there partner to be beautiful but should it be the only feature one should look for. Should it not be that the one you love should care for you, should understand you, should love your family?

Some may think how family comes into picture when its between the two souls. Family comes as they are the one who brought you in this world. Family here is your father and mother. They loved you, cared for you throughout your life. For them you come first in whatever they do. You are the sole reason because of which many times they did something which was not possible for them to do by going a extra mile. So is it not your responsibility that the one you love should love them, should also care for them. Should it not be that they should also be happy rather than seeing you move away from them & leave them & forget them for one whom you would have known for months or some years. You may feel it’s the same old crap repeated again, but this is what I think.

For me its not beauty that matters. For me its not richness that matters. What matters is the behavior of the girl towards me & my family. The care & love she has for me & my father & mother. She should never feel it as a obligation but should be like a thing which should make her happy.

It should not be only that one partner should do that but it should be from both sides. If you expect something from somebody even you should be like that. It should always be mutual rather than single sided for love to grow & your relationship to strengthen.

And to say simply :

Love is not what gives you tear,

But something that takes all your fear,

It takes tension away from your face,

& smile is only what you embrace……….

LIFE – LOVE IT, LIVE IT….