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Sunday, November 28, 2010

First Love in Lyf......

Wat is the thing which u can't forget in lyf? Answer vil be ur first job, first salary, first ride and most imp first love...... 



First love is wat teaches u many things in lyf, it changes ur perception towards lyf. It can make u stronger or it can destroy ur lyf. But beauty in it still remains. Somebdy has said correctly The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end. The more u want 2 forget it the more it comes in front of u.

It is also true that ur first love vil also start frm something unexpected. It is if one sided den it vil torture u. And  if both love and try not 2 say den it makes lyf miserable for both. And dat feeling can be explained by some lines as : 

When He was in love, He always thought about her for every single second. He tried to convey each and every second of his life happening to her through phone call or at- least through a message. If there was no proper message from her he felt the world is dark. His emotions could not control the situation. He keeps on messaging continuously and expected an answer immediately. He lived with a feeling of Love Torture but he liked it though.

She likes him too and felt that he is good and too friendly and cares for her. She liked talking to him and enjoyed the stories of him which were conveyed in a serious and funny manner. She felt that he was a good friend of her and felt unhappy when her Inbox was filled with too many such messages from him and his constant question about  whom she would marry. She was in tortured moments to answer him which she was not in a position to answer.

[You never Lose by Loving. You always Lose by Holding Back!!!]


Both love each other but dat courage is not dere to tell each other just because first time he/she has got this feeling and both try to hold dere emotions. And in this if one moves away in lyf. The guilt feeling remains that y dey did not tell eachother. 

The second case when both love each other truly. Both have conveyed dere feeling and both know this is dere first and last love. For both dere world starts and ends with each other. Dey can't live without each other for a minute. Form them dere is no day or nite only thing they know is dat dey r together. For them beauty and essence of love is dat dey found the true love as dere first love.

And for some only search goes on and for them decision also becomes difficult if they find somebody. As dere mind has only on question : 

Why is it, when your looking for that someone, you find no one, but, once you find it, a lot more choices start showing up? But, if you leave that first love, then, they all start drifting away? Is that love's way of testing your true feelings or to.

And this search vil go on for them. 


I can only pray for all out dere waitin for dere first love


LET UR FIRST LOVE BE UR TRUE LOVE AND LAST LOVE.

And a poem for those who got somebody but could not speak and dere love has moved with someone else. For those for whom it was single sided but first and last love.

Thi ek wo jisse hum chahte the,
dur se dekh khush ho jaate the,
kehna toh tha bahut kuch par pata nahi kyun sharmate the,
din aur saal beet gaye lekin himat na juta sake dil ki baat kahne ki,
hum unhe bhulane laye dusre kaam mein dhyaan lagane laye,
lekin khuda ko kuch aur manzoor tha,
aaj aachanak unhe dekha toh dil mein ek ajeeb si kasis hui,
dil mein ek dard utha, iss dard ke saamne har dard chota aur begana tha,
lekin dard ka marz purana tha, unhe apne dil ki baat batana tha,
yahi humne ne thana tha, soo chal diye unke pass lekar sirf pyar ka ehsaas,
lekin aaj bhi kuch kahna paye, kyunki wo kisi aur ki ho chali thi,
koi aur usse chahta tha, uske mann ko bhata tha,
ab toh bas yahi chahate hai ki wo jahaan rahe khush rahe aabaad rahe,
hum chahe barbaad rahe,
khushi kam pade aye khuda toh humari khushi le lena badle mein hume unke gam dena,
chahe toh zindagi ke pal kam kar dena, iss dil ko dubara pyar na dena,
dil totna shay nahi payega, ab uski yaad mein hi zindagi bitayega……….. 

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

UR LIFE

This is ur life. Do wat u love, & do it more often.
If u don't like something, change it.
If u don't like ur job, quit.
If u don't have enough time, stop watchin TV.
If u r loookin for the love of ur life, Stop.
They vil be waitin for u when u start doin things u love.
Stop over analyzing, Life is simple.
All emotions r beautiful, Wen u eat, appreciate, Every last bite.
Open ur mind, arms & heart to new things & people, we r united in our differences.
Ask the next person u see wat their passion is, & share ur inspiring dream with them.
Travel often, Gettin lost vil help u find urself.
Some opportunities only come once, seize them.
Life is about the people u meet, & d thing u create with dem.
So go out & start creatin.
Life is short.
LIVE UR DREAM & WEAR UR PASSION

Saturday, November 13, 2010

A day in life


Thinking to write it for a long time but each time I start it some words are lost, some feeling goes away. Every time it feels like something is missing. But what is that I don’t know and why this happens is also of no idea to me. Maybe work has taken it toll or maybe tiredness has come in the way. This may not contain the thrills or chills that you may think of finding but it contains the story of a simple person’s life whose day seems to be ordinary just like half the population of earth. The relation anybody gets from this story about him is not coincidence, it’s just a matter of fact.

The morning for Mr. A brings a ray of hope that maybe today will be different, maybe Mr. A will achieve something today that is worth admiring. The thoughts gives him energy to fight the nice cold weather and get up and get ready for work. The journey to office seems like a rat race. Sometimes run for the train and sometimes wait for the train to come at right time. In both cases the one who will suffer will be Mr. A. But nobody cares for the suffering of Mr. A as long as he is coming and finishing the work. His all hope goes away when he reaches office same old stuff to do, nothing worth admiring. Wants to go away from this place but can’t as future depends on this. Want to do something different but not allowed. He cannot even use his brain in this job. He hates it but is forced to love it. He is put in a cage where he cannot even know what good nature is offering to him. He can only see artificial lights and he has to breathe artificial air. The more he hates the day for coming in his life the slower it passes, giving him more pain. Fun comes but in small packages which gets extinct quickly. Maybe he expected too much from his job or maybe this job doesn’t suit him. But again in both cases sufferer is Mr. A. As the day progresses the motivation level goes down. Lunch just seems to be a formality which has to be taken in order for him to be in a state to do the work. As the evening draws closer from nowhere he gets some excitement. Maybe on the thought of the caged lion to be free and do as he wishes. The office closure time for Mr. A feels like that he has been released from jail. The happiness on his face to be out of cage gives him new energy for the night. Night is the time when he decides what has to be done. He is master of his own destiny. No one to stop him, no one to force him to achieve something which he never want to achieve. He can party, watch movies, go to disco but does he really do all this. The answer is no. Full day work leaves him exhausted to do anything on weekdays. For him only goal for night is to sleep well which never happens. The more the rest he needs the less he feels sleepy. Still that small light in a far tunnel keeps him motivated to live like this. He may not be happy now, but on a long run he will achieve what he wants. He will use this hard life to become strong and to know the basic points of professional life. I can only wish a good life and happiness for him and for all Mr. A who live like this without even acknowledging it. May all Mr. A’s dream come true.

Live life king’s Size………………

Friday, November 12, 2010

Life - A Ride

Life as we say is roller coaster ride with both ups and downs. Only difference that will occur between two people will be one having more ups than other or more down. But watever u do ride is always a bumpy one. Maybe the suspension was not good or u did not choose a suspension correctly. The suspension in life are the family and friends. If the family is supportive the low period of ur life vil also not make u to bow ur head rather than dat life vil bow in front of u. Friends are the suspension which makes ur life a joy ride. Friends vil provide u a different view of life. A view where u don't live life just for the sake of living but u live it for the memorable moments u get from it called memories. In my ride i have got a smooth suspension all because of my family and frnds. Today i bow down to my family and frnds for makin my ride a smooth one. Dey where always there to support me wen my life became bumpy. I hail to all my frnds and my family. Its just a small ways to show my apperication for all of dem.